I created a group claiming to be 'The Best Place for Business Women'...
Pretty big call, with allllll the other places ambitious business women can hang out, right??
So why ‘The Best Place for Business Women’??
I want to share some more with you about what my community, and my work with women is all about – and what it’s NOT.
I wanted to create a space – and a business – that’s not just in service of women’s businesses growing – there’s plenty of those out there. And that’s not just about women’s mental and emotional wellbeing, there’s also plenty of them. And I also wanted to create a space that’s not just about women’s relationships, passion and aliveness – there’s a heap of them!
I want to go to the intersection of those three things and help driven women thrive as WOMEN.
There are three core pillars that I support business women to transform and I’m going to share a bit about each of those pillars to help you understand how I support women (and their businesses) to flourish.
My work with female business leaders is to help them find overflowing Peace, Passion and Purpose.
This drives income, personal fulfilment and relationship satisfaction UP.
Too many driven and ambitious women are working hard on things that are important to them, but feeling exhausted and like they’re trapped on a hamster wheel of endless to-do’s, not living with the radiance, ease, connection and aliveness they sense is possible.
If you’re here following me only to grow your measurable success in your business through strategy, I’m probably not for you.
You’re likely going to experience me as a bit strange, a bit overly focused on feelings, a bit too ‘sensitive’ and maybe even a bit too ‘woo-woo’… 😏
BUT, if you want to grow your income and your success in your business and life BY;
✨ feeling more radiant, turned on and alive in your body
✨ learning to regulate your nervous system and transform stress
✨ being in approval of your depths, vulnerabilities and humanness AND your wildness, power and uniqueness (I’m here for your FULL spectrum!)
✨ not just living to work
✨ unravelling the conditioning thats had you neglect yourself while growing your company (and raising a family if you’re a Mama)
✨ connecting with and learning to trust your feminine wisdom
Then you might just have found yourself in the best damn place for YOU as a business woman, because those things are my jam! 🤩
And who am I??
I’m Nic – I bring 13+ years of coaching high achievers around the world and running my own business, a decade of professional elite level equestrian sport, personal experience with burnout, extensive training in a range of transformative modalities spanning mind, body and spirit and a heap of business and marketing training thrown in there, too.
Sounding good??
Read on and learn about the three pillars of my work!
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WANT MORE PEACE??
In a survey I conducted recently with dozens of ambitious female business owners, the TOP response for the thing they wanted MORE of was Relaxation, Peace and Ease…
Here are a bunch of things that might deliver temporary peace, but aren’t the long term fix you’re looking for;
✨ being more organised
✨ meditating and trying to quiet your mind
✨ a holiday to Bali
✨ that after work glass of wine
✨ an afternoon nap
✨ venting to your girlfriends
✨ putting your kids in front of the tv to get a break
✨ putting yourself in front of the tv
Peace is the first pillar of work I help business women with.
It’s like laying the foundations on which you build everything else. If those inner foundations are frenetic, busy and tense, that flows into everything else.
When you’re missing Peace – when you’re trapped inside cycles of over thinking, worrying about your business/relationship/money etc or chasing your tail keeping up with your many responsibilities – life can feel like a HUGE weight to bear.
PEACE comes from getting out of your head and back into your body!
As a smart woman, you’ve been encouraged and validated for your intelligence, and its no doubt made you successful in business, but you can’t THINK your way out of stress, tension and built up emotions.
I’ve had women choose not to work with me in the short term, instead favouring improving their strategy or going on a holiday, who inadvertently come back round 12 months later.
Thats because embodying and experiencing greater peace in your life is something you must learn to cultivate from within your ROOTS – from your nervous systems UP – not from your branches (your head!) down!
SO! If you want more PEACE in your life, it’s time to learn to get out of your head and back into your body, and then work constructively with what you find there.
I recommend you dive into my free 14 day guided meditation journey if you want a structure to support you with this. Click here for the meditations!
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WANT MORE PASSION??
Let me define passion – when I say passion, I mean physical vitality, energy and vibrant aliveness that is the fuel for the life you want to live!
I have, frankly **Heart Breaking** conversations with women regularly who tell me that they don’t remember the last time they had a really good belly laugh.
They’re so busy looking after everyone and everything – their business, family, home etc etc – that they don’t have all that much left for themselves at the end of the day.
So, allow me to be frank, and maybe even a little blunt…
If you’re not genuinely turned on and lit up by your life, something needs to change.
You accepting conditions where you’re saying yes when you mean no, where you’re not feeling nourished and healthy and where you’re withering instead of blossoming in your Radiance is in service of NoBody.
You are not serving your family, your business or your soul by perpetuating this.
Something I love to help women find is what I describe as healthy selfishness.
Most women are way more inclined towards the putting others first, so climbing towards the idea of claiming a version of self-serving can feel challenging.
But, oh-so-important.
I don’t say ‘if you’re not lit up by your life something needs to change’ with the intention of shaming anyone.
Most women who are chronically depleted, don’t want to feel that way, yet mustering the energy to to do something different can feel like an uphill battle, and the suggestion that you *should* be able to experience more aliveness can feel a bit confronting.
If you’re feeling that, take a deep breath, you’re not alone.
You were built, and I believe, you deeply deserve, to be overflowing with a sense of fullness and connected to your vital life force and turn on.
SO! ❤️🔥 If you want more passion, here are 3 questions for you to explore;
- Where are you saying yes when you mean no?
- Do you eat well, drink enough water and get enough sleep?
- When was the last time you had a satisfying orgasm?
I love you. You deserve to feel good. Please prioritise yourself.
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WANT MORE PURPOSE??
One of the biggest traps I see driven and ambitious women fall into is busily going through the motions of their life.
You likely have a lot on your plate.
There’s clients to call, admin to do, deals to drive, staff to manage, projects to plan, marketing to create, stuff to delegate, challenges to address and networking to be done – and all thats before you’ve even considered what the household and family need from you!
It’s easy to find yourself in a place of feeling like you’re meeting the demands of life and work and doing what needs to be done, but feeling like you’re on an endless hamster wheel of tasks instead of really living.
In today’s capitalist society, it’s far too easy to buy into the idea that your production or results are your purpose.
THEY’RE NOT.
Even if you ARE passionate about what you do and you do meaningful work, the things you DO are not your purpose. And it’s too easy to forget that you don’t live to ‘do’ stuff.
When you start existing just to complete your to-do list, life starts to feel kinda dry.
Not to mention, stressful if you’re juggling tight deadlines and lots of demands!
So, if you’re feeling less like the Queen in your life and more like a hamster on a wheel, or slave to your to-do-list, it’s time to reinstate your real purpose.
I LOVE re-connecting women with something deeper and more meaningful.
Your purpose is a living current of wisdom and it’s possible to make contact with that and live your life, run your business and lead your team as an authentic expression of your unique essence!
That means creating your results from a place of radiance and passion instead of low-grade anxiety and frenetic momentum.
It means being able to access sustainable confidence because there’s something bigger at play than whats going on in front of you today, and, it means letting your authentic self be seen and felt in all that you do.
No more hiding who you are, but leading your life and inspiring those around you by – as cliche’d as it sounds – letting your light shine.
If you want to feel more connected to your purpose, here’s an invitation for you right now;
Grab your phone and open Spotify. Put on a track that seriously gets your juices flowing, get up and MOVE YOUR BODY! Let that song move and shake you! And, while you do, feel your heart deeply. Feel your love for your life and your why.
Then, ask THAT energy, ‘What’s my next step?’
And do that thing.
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What do you think? Is a community that includes education and support on empowering yourself in those three areas The Best Place for Business Women??
Obviously, it’s not going to resonate for everyone, and I’m okay with that.
But I know that for those who are inspired by this, it’ll change their life.
If you want to be part of the action, check it out; https://bit.ly/thebestplaceforbusinesswomen
