The unexpected feeling of success
An interesting theme I’ve noticed…

One of the interesting themes I see in women who grow into bigger, more successful and satisfied versions of themselves is that the way they FEEL when they get that success is not what they expected…
When women start making the money they really want.
When they start enjoying the kind of work/life balance they want, and pursuing their hobbies.
When they start having the quality of support and care in their relationships that they’ve always yearned for…
When they start having the sex they really want, and trusting themselves to have their own back and speak their boundaries when necessary, and prioritising themselves and loving themselves and fiercely going after the things that they want and telling the truth even when its hard and letting go of toxic people and workplaces and exercising and eating well and having more energy and alllllll the other things that women want…
They expect to be in some kind of peak state. 💪 💥
They’ve often imagined this more evolved version of themselves as something MORE than they are today.
And while yes – often they are brighter, they do let themselves take up more space, they do speak up more fiercely when necessary and are braver in their risk taking, the tone that actually permeates their transformation is that they are more RELAXED.
As the striving, proving and stress melt out of their systems, they become supple, and radiant. They move more slowly but get more done. They laugh more, and breathe deeper. Their eyes sparkle. They are softer.
The calling card of a woman who is truly successful, satisfied, well supported and surrounded by people who respect, love and uphold her, is her relaxed, open and quiet nervous system.
From this ground in herself, she can build and create anything she desires in the world!